3.30.2010

Time...

Is it harder knowing that your days are numbered vs a sudden death? I mean when you know that you just have a few months left it gives you time... time to say what you might not have gotten the chance to, time to say I Love You a million times, time to hug, time to celebrate memories and time to create new ones...knowing gives you time to process and grieve slowly...time to find Salvation...

Time is a funny thing, sometimes it is easily wasted as it drags on and other times it flies by.

As I have tried to process the past 5 days time has given me so many emotions, like a roller coaster with it's ups and downs,highs and lows, Hope depleted but replaced with Faith...

I have debated writing about this but if I don't get it out I feel like I am going to explode...

A lot of you have followed my daddy and his story through this blog, then there came a time when I couldn't blog about him and what was going on with the cancer, it was to hard to face, the knowing what was coming and now that daddy is facing the end of his life it doesn't make it any easier to blog about BUT I have this sudden urge to tell you about the Greatest man in my life...

Like if I document it, it will make it go away, time will stop,stand still...I know that time does not work that way...

My daddy is one of a kind, he makes an impact on everyone he meets, daddy doesn't know a stranger...anyone that has ever had the pleasure of meeting him is a better person because of it...

My daddy is George Shirley, I am named after him, I am so PROUD of that fact...
My daddy is a fighter...
My daddy is kind...
My daddy is fair...
My daddy would do anything for you...

I LOVE MY DADDY!

Daddy gets to go home from the hospital today, hospice is being called in and in the coming weeks our entire family will be there rallying around him...reminding him how much we love him and that he is the Greatest Man in our lives

So I am going to take some time off...I'd like to take this time and ask for your Prayers

I want to leave you with a song that daddy requested every Sunday in church when he was a child...

Church in the Wildwood

There's a church in the valley by the wildwood
No lovelier place in the dale
No spot is so dear to my childhood
As the little brown church in the vale

Chorus:
Oh, come to the church by the wildwood
Come to the church in the dale
No place is so dear to my childhood
As the little brown church in the vale

Additional Verses:
How sweet on a clear Sabbath morning
To list to the clear ringing bell
It's tones so sweetly are calling
Oh, come to the church in the vale

There, close by the church in the valley
Lies one that I love so well
She sleeps, sweetly sleeps, neath the willow
Disturb not her rest in the vale

There, close by the side of that loved one
Neath the tree where the wild flowers bloom
When the farewell hymn shall be chanted
I shall rest by her side in the tomb



My confession for today: Time is not always on your side...so make the most of it everyday...



3.23.2010

29 Days of Giving Challenge



I was catching up on FB when I came across So Wonderful So Marvelous latest blog post. She is doing the 29 days of Giving Challenge and has in turn inspired me to do so as well.

The premise is simple really, everyday do something for someone else... from the ning site, 29 Gifts is a global giving movement with nearly ten thousand members in 42 countries. Our collective mission at 29 Gifts is to revive the giving spirit in the world. We change lives—and change the world—one gift at a time. Give one thing away each day for 29 days. Your 29 Gifts can be anything given to anyone... money, food, old sweaters, smiles, your time, kind words or thoughts.

This appeals to me on many levels, but mainly because I think (at least for me) it is so easy to get caught up in our own lives and sometimes live in our own little 'me,me,me world'. By joining the challenge I am holding myself accountable gaining an attitude of gratitude and hope to make an impact on someones life everyday, no matter how big or small. Plus I will hopefully set an example for my own children, who, after all, are a 'reflection of me'.

I won't post every day but I will update my facebook status every day, so if your not already my FB friend just click the FB icon on my sidebar so you can follow my journey.

If you would care to join me and many others on this journey just click below

My confession for today: I think I just did my first act of giving...in the form of SILENCE-while Eric was smacking away on his cereal *ugh* I did not once sigh heavily,roll my eyes or leave the room...I just bared it...I think I am off to a good start =)



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3.19.2010

Calling all Okies

My friend Amy, my High School friend that I reconnected with this past summer is a real go-getter when it comes to causes and she has recruited me to help, help in a small way...Please read on...

Tulsa’s Twenty New Leaders
benefiting The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation
April 1, 2010
Renaissance Hotel


Cystic fibrosis is a genetic disease affecting approximately 30,000 children and young adults in the United States.  More than 10 million Americans (one in 31) are symptomless carriers of the defective gene.  When the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation was founded in 1955, few children with CF lived to attend elementary school. Today, the median age of survival for people with CF is more than 37 years.

The Foundation is one of the most effective and efficient organizations of its kind. It has received a four star rating for sound fiscal management from Charity Navigator, the largest independent charity evaluator in the United States, and is an accredited charity of the Better Business Bureau’s Wise Giving Alliance.

The Sooner Chapter of The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation will host the 8th annual “Tulsa’s Twenty New Leaders” fundraising event on April 1st at the Renaissance Hotel. Over 400 guests will attend

This event features a distinguished group of Tulsa’s young professionals who exemplify leadership qualities, are active in volunteer roles and contribute to the Tulsa business community. Each honoree is required to raise $3500 in donations to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation.

Jo Ann Winn, Executive Director, expects the event to net over $100,000. The Sooner Chapter annually raises over $1,000,000 net to help fund CF research.

Each honoree will be featured the night of event with an award presented by the Sooner Chapter Junior Board president, Brad White, a commendation from Governor Henry and a proclamation from Mayor Bartlett.

This black-tie event will feature an exclusive live auction with several exciting packages including: A foursome Golf Outing at Southern Hills Country Club, Dinner for Six at a Tulsa Fire Station, VIP tour tasting for 4 to Far Niente and Nickel & Nickel Wineries with a collection of private estate wines from both wineries, 2009 CFF Event Package, foursome golf package at area golf clubs, Progressive Dinner Packages. The silent auction will have over 75 items including: golf outings, dinner gift certificates, spa packages, concert tickets, tires, yoga, and much more.



The evening includes a seated dinner and music by the Steve Liddell Band. Our bid for a cure speaker will be Miss Lo Detrich. Lo was diagnosed in 1984 with CF. She has had 2 double lung transplants and has been an ambassador for the CF Foundation her entire life. Lo’s speeches are uplifting and inspirational to all those around her.

***There will also be a raffle drawing of a wonderful dining package that includes 4 gift certificates valued at $250( That's $1000 total in fine dining) each to Elements Steakhouse and Grille, The Ivey Rooftop Wine Bar and Lounge on Brookside, Mahogany’s Prime Steakhouse and P.F. Chang’s China Bistro. This is where I am asking for your help, I am helping sell raffle tickets for $10. I know we all can't attend BUT we can have a chance at some wonderful fine dining while helping out a Great Cause. If you live close to the Tulsa area and are interested in a raffle ticket please email (email on my sidebar) me and I can meet you to get you your ticket. If you are a little to far to meet me you can still help by contacting...Jo Ann Winn or Amy Blackwell at the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, (918)744-6354 or purchase tickets online at Tulsa CF


The winning raffle ticket will be drawn by the 2010 CF Ambassador Miss Hannah Nicole Hoffman. Hannah is a beautiful 7 1/2 year old. She was diagnosed at the age of 15 months with Cystic Fibrosis. Her family has been blessed with her being a healthy CF child. She takes medication (enzymes and breathing treatments). She enjoys Gymnastics and Broken Arrow Cheerleading. Hannah also takes guitar lessons with her father and wants to be the next Taylor Swift. She loves playing with her friends, her cousin Mckenzie, and her sister Harlee. Hannah is involved at church and has many friends who pray to find a cure for CF.
In the below photo are Heather, Hannah, Angie and Amy



Abigail Thomas is the chair of the event and Justin Lund is the Auction Chair. The committee is compromised of the Sooner Chapter’s Junior Board:

Brad White, President

Abigail Thomas, Vice President

Kathleen Barrett

Jessica & Erik Block

Amy Bradshaw

Carly Bush

Lauren Carter

Marla Carter

Amanda Clinton

Jenny Collver

Krista Derby

Kristi & Josh DeBoer

Lo Detrich

Matt Foste

Whitney Hoskins

Laurel Johnson

Janna Lemons

Justin Lund

Adrienne & Dave Nathman

Roy Nelson

Emily & Ryan Neurohr

John Richer

Andrew Shank

Sara C. Smith



Honorees include:

Charles Bendana, Ben-Trei Ltd.
Kaitlin Bullock, Medical School Student
James Cooper, Center 1 Market
Deborah Croisant, Muse Intimates
Brandon Diles, University of Tulsa
Tiffany Ellis, River Spirit Casino Amy Ellman, Community Action Project
Patrick Graham, Clear Ridge Capital
Shondel Heald, Senior Star
Dr. Robert Herman, Dr. Robert J Herman, DDS
Paul Iskat, Northwestern Mutual Life- Oklahoma
Joe Millspaugh, Samson Resources
Kym Morellla, Blue Cross Blue Shied
Andrea Myers, Williams Companies
Margaret Rosene, Bank of Oklahoma
Seneca Scott, US Representative, District 72
Terrell Siegfried, Hall Estill
Matt Stiner, Tulsa Veterans Treatment Court

Premier sponsors of the event include Anonymous in Honor of Lo Detrich; Debbie & Mike Allred, CMark Resources, LLC, James A. and Mary P. Bush; Mesa Products, Ralph and Frances McGill Foundation/Trust Company of Oklahoma, Senior Star Living, Williams Companies, WR Thomas and The Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation.



Event contributors are: auctioneer Jay Litchfield, emcee Justin Wilfon from KJRH channel 2; Ralph Cole Photography, Williams. And Petroleum Club



Table sponsors include:

Honoree Sponsors: Ben-Trei, Ltd and Dr Robert Herman, DDS

Chairman Sponsor: Williams Companies

President Sponsors: Don Thornton Cadillac HUMMER Saab, Rosebury Charitable Trust

Director Sponsors: Abigail Thomas, Anonymous in Honor of Amy Ellman, Hesselbein Tire Inc, Eller & Detrich, OND Financial Solutions, University of Tulsa, and Winston Company.



Sponsorships are still available to support an honoree. Table sponsorships are available for a donation of $3500 which will include two VIP reserved tables for ten guests, a donation of $2500 will include two VIP reserved tables for eight guests, a $1500 sponsorship will include a table for ten guests, a donation of $1000 will include a table for eight guests. Individual tickets are $100.


My confession today: I really hope my email box starts overflowing with your generous offers to help...Thank You!


3.16.2010

A Much Needed Trip

Just returned from 2 glorious days in Eureka Springs-that cooler weather nor drizzle could dampen. We arrived early and our Inn keepers at Candlestick cottage Inn were gracious enough to allow us an early check in. We had private/room specific parking for The Peaches suite.

Day 1

This little gem of a B&B is wonderful, our suite(1 of 4) was spacious, overlooking the hollow below where deer roam. Sitting on the patio outside our room in the evenings you could hear the music waft up from the downtown area. Heavenly!







Due to the Inns perfect location we were able to park our car, walk the one block to all the shops in the downtown area-this luxury probably saved us close to $15 in parking fees since we spent the entire day downtown, shopping,snacking and finding the perfect spot to watch the St Paddys day parade.









We needed fuel for our bodies-so we headed to Mama Rouxs only to discover they were closed BUMMER because I really wanted to try their muffalatta, we moved on to Chelseas to have some of their famous pizza, again not open when we tried for lunch. Thankfully I did my research and had a backup plan we headed to The Pizza Bar for their very reasonable lunch buffet. Some of the BEST pizza I have ever had. around $6pp





We stopped by Eureka Live for some adult beverages-a very cool underground location with tin ceilings LOVE the tin ceiling. There is a huge table with hats all kinds of hats for you to wear while you are there, from a marketing standpoint I found that genius! The service there was out of this world, the owners formally from a town in Oklahoma worked behind the bar and in front of the bar delivering bowls of candy to the patrons and complimentary juicy fruit shots. Eureka Lives tag line is 'What Happens underground...stays buried' Love that!!!



We had plans to go to Autumn Breeze for dinner but due to the fact Eric had been on 19 straight days of nights he was exhausted, so for dinner we opted to get Bubbas BBQ to go and enjoy in our room.

We hadn't eaten at Bubbas BBQ in years and after I devoured my ribs,slaw and baked beans I was left asking myself WHY WHY WHY had we not been back sooner? The ribs were perfect IMHO the smokey flavor was spot on. I LOVED their slaw(I am still dreaming about the slaw) and beans and the sauce was divine! YUM-O Bubbas gets 5 stars from us. Ribs for 2 with sides and bread $26...no photos because remember I said 'devoured'

Some random ES  photos from our trip







Day 2

Breakfast at Candlestick cottage Inn is served at 9am on their treetop porch. Upon arriving tables were preset with plates,water and juice then you are offered coffee,hot tea, hot chocolate or mochas. Our first course was vanilla yogurt with strawberries and bananas, then came a warm blueberry muffin and to round out the 3 course breakfast we were served non-greasy bacon(my bacon always comes out greasy-this actually looked healthy) and a very large portion of egg/hash brown casserole. The Innkeepers shared stories with us about their travels from California to ES.

I just can not say enough about this Inn and it is one of my new favorite places to stay...

We had reservations at another property for our second night The Tree House Cottages, so we had to say our goodbyes and pack up for a new adventure...

While waiting to check in we shopped the attraction district, took a tour of the Quigley Castle-which was incredible, just the story behind how the house was built was fascinating-From the website:
Elise Fiovanti, was Italian. She came to the Ozarks when she was nine.  She loved the outdoors and began to collect rocks as she walked along a creek bed to school. When she was 18 during the depression she married my grandfather, Albert Quigley.  He was the type of fellow who brought her rock collection with them to the site of his farm and lumber mill. They lived in a lumber shack and had five children. My grandfather promised her a house with the lumber cut off their own property. In 1943 she designed a house that would allow her to bring nature indoors. It would be her dream house. The lumber was cut and drying in a long chicken house below the shack. However, WWII was going on, and supplies were rationed. My grandfather thought they should wait to build the house, especially as the design called for 32 large windows, and glass was rationed.  They argued about it for several months. In June, when my grandfather left for the mill, grandmother and the five children, three of them teenage boys, tore the lumber shack down.  She moved them into the chicken house...read the full story HERE
Tour prices were $6.50 for adults and children 14 and under are free. Here some photos of Quigleys Castle








We had lunch at Cafe Soleil-if you have never been to this restaurant don't walk... run it was FAB, they make their dressings in-house, the parm dressing on my salad was a flavor explosion in my mouth, the hubby had the Fish taco wrap $10 plus $2 if you sub pasta salad for a house salad and I had the Old Chicago sandwich $8 both were very good!



Check-in time at Tree House Cottages...there really are no words for this place, The owners Terry and Patsy have thought of everything. We stayed in the Hidden oak tree house with it's gothic arched doorways, this tree house sits 26 ft in the air-you are definitely in the treetops-when you look out your deck it is hard to believe you are still right in town,woods and wildlife are abundant-serene comes to mind. Our tree house had a heart shaped jacuzzi, dimer switches-which are the bomb, tall windows,fireplace, modern kitchen set up, the fridge had complimentary champagne,OJ,sodas, pumpkin spice bread and various other snacks were left for us to enjoy...The Bed was the most comfy bed I have ever slept in! I wanted to bring it home with me...I can so see why this establishment rarely has an open night or rather why they are booked so far in advance...MAGICAL!







We stopped in at the Lumberyard saloon for some before dinner drinks-this has always been one of our favorite spots for great drink specials and friendly attentive service-they didn't disappoint! A few photos from The Lumberyard...these ladies come down for the parade every year! They were a HOOT!





For dinner we stumbled upon a new to us place called Rockin Pig Saloon and come to find out they are fairly new, opened in June of last year. Located in the corner of Gaskins Switch shopping center, don't let the word 'saloon' fool you this is a family style restaurant that does have a full bar, smoking is permitted outdoors only-in the 'Pig Pen'  and they gladly welcome families traveling with children.







Is it just me OR does great service make everything taste better? Out of every place we visited and while we did get great service everywhere this place was just a step above-it is hard to explain...perhaps it is better 'experienced'

We started with an appetizer of Smoked Asada tacos-chopped smoked brisket topped with cilantro and onions with a slice of lime served on white corn tortillas , fresh grated cheese and avocado ranch sauce were offered by the wait staff and while the tacos were perfection as is, I gladly accepted the condiments to jazz up my taco. No photos because these babies were 'inhaled'

For our main course Eric being a rib lover had the baby back ribs $11(half rack & $19 full rack) with slaw and sweet potato fries which of course I sampled-if I am comparing to Bubbas they were meatier and had a nice flavor not as 'smoked' as I like and a little to heavy on the salt rub for my tastes but still tasty-I preferred bubbas just because they had the perfect amount of smoked flavor BUT this wasn't my meal LOL it was Erics, the slaw had a kick to it which made the Eric go Best Slaw EVER! and as for the sweet potato fries(which he doesn't even like sweet potatoes- so i was shocked he ordered them) they came with a dipping sauce that the waitress described as 'tastes like Christmas-time' and she was spot on! He thoroughly enjoyed his meal.

I had the Al Pesto pizza $10-which are wood fired, the Al Pesto was an olive oil and pesto base with fresh mozzarella,ricotta,tomatoes and roasted chicken-which I loved my only complaint was the chicken and tomatoes were sparse BUT due to the great service it was quickly overlooked on my part.




Day 3-departure day

We begrudgingly checked out of Tree House Cottages-so did not want to leave, but the real world and no less than 100 text messages from our 3 children called us back to reality.

We stopped at Mud St.Cafe for breakfast, where we passed the largest muffins I have ever seen-I should have bought one for the road-my only regret was that I didn't.

We ordered omelets that were served with cottage fries-the best tasting potatoes with onions I have ever had, I had the Greek omelet-Artichoke hearts, black olives, spinach & feta. The hubby ordered the Mexican omelet-Spicy pinto beans & cheese, topped with sour cream, salsa, tomatoes and black olives. He opted for minus sour cream and plus jalapenos-both were out of this world good!






The perfect way to end our trip...and I am already planning our next trip up...
Thank You ES for making this a relaxing and wonderful experience...I miss you already... yes it is  possible to miss a town...

A few more photos of the town...
















My confession for today: This trip was just what I needed...I am pretty sure it saved my sanity!

*edited for a disclaimer*: no one in Eureka Springs knows I exist, I was NOT paid for any of the above reviews, I was a wife and mother seeking refuge and ES took me in...and gave me back my sanity... I just chose to blog about it. If you are an Innkeeper,restaurant owner, hotel/motel manager or own a shop in ES I am an equal opportunity tourist...if I left you out this go round forgive me...I am scatterbrained at best...you don't wanna know my worst...  I promise to come back again and again I bet I will discover you next time around! 

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