11.07.2008

*edit*The Confessional booth is open

I am editing this because NEVER in my wildest dreams did I think anyone would respond let alone be so openly honest-I am beside myself at some of the confessions-I.Feel.Your.Pain! Thank You for being so open on my blog.... *tears*

I always end my posts with a confession and now I am inviting you, my
beloved blog reader to share your confession with me...The confessional booth is open

Kinda like a 'post secret' if you will. Got something on your mind that you feel you can't say to your boss,neighbor,friend,mom etc...Have a secret crush, are you a music pirate,Do you still drive by your X's house and peer in the windows at his 20 something wife,someone hurt you and you have never forgiven them,pet peeves,skeletons in your closet and dirty laundry are all fair game...Go ahead get it off your chest...VENT my peeps VENT

Just post your confession in the comment section AND feel free to post as "anonymous." or make up a name-you do not need a blog to make a confession... I am not here to judge nor try and track you down...I will even start it off...

When I was 18 I stole 12 swim suits from NBC(Name Brand Clothing) I was the best dressed girl at the pool that summer

My confession for today: Confession is good for the soul....I may even post my own 'ANON' comment here as well

Comments are closed look for our Next Confessional Dec 5th

95 comments:

  1. i knew he was married when we hooked up.

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  2. You are so going to jail - what's the po-po's number there??

    My confession for today: I am gonna beat the hell out of my 23 year old son. The stupid racist, homophobic Republican (YES!! REPUBLICAN-lol) got a seat belt infraction that he never paid and now they are suspending his license. So now the frigging $25 ticket is gonna cost him upwards of $150. Say it with me folks, L O S E R.
    This is the same son who is the dead beat dad.
    Makes a mother so proud....

    My other confession for today: I hope they pull him over before he gets it straightened out and throw his ass in the pokey! That'll teach him.
    Parenting never freakin ends!!!

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  3. I ate a 9x13 brownie last night.
    Alone.

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  4. LMAO Mrs. parks. I too have done that as well except mine was a shitload of cupcakes.

    My confession is that I am in love with an actor and I think of him constantly. Like I would even have a chance with him. And my husband is picking up on my absentmindedness. I think I pretty much gave myself away with this. LOL

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  5. My confession for the day: I need a second job. I don't WANT to work two jobs and take care of e.v.e.r.y.t.h.i.n.g. AND be nice about it. boo freakin' whooo that's life, right? Trying to keep the nice face on is the hardest.

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  6. I am terrible... absolutely terrible at saving! I mean, I don't spend our money on outrageous things. I haven't bought myself a new pair of jeans in years I would say. We don't go to expensive restaraunts. We don't do anything expensive. However, money just seems to slip through my fingers like water. I just don't get it. I am now scared to death that we won't be able to have our down payment together when we find a house. I have been absolutely stressed out about this since we started trying to save it up. Probobly a yar ago! Ugh!

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  7. I have a crush on a guy at church...we are both married! Yikes!!

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  8. Shit where to start.
    1. I confiscated pot from my teenager and kept it.

    2. I knew Chris was married when we hooked up.

    3.I lied to my kids

    4.I'd like to run away from my life

    I may be back for more

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  9. Thx for stopping by my blog!

    I love the confessional booth idea. I'm trying to think of a secret to share, but I'm such an open person (which often gets me into trouble!) that I can't think of one I haven't already told.

    Well considering you don't know me well yet I'll tell you something everyone who knows me (or my blog) already knows,

    5 years ago I had an affair - WHILE I was pregnant with my husband's (at the time) baby. Loooong story short, I left my husband, married the man I had the affair with (my current husband), and now live happily ever after. I've had my share of Karma payback so don't worry that I got off scoot free ;-)

    It's probably the most shameful part of my life and although I'm happy with how things turned out in the end I would NEVER do it again. Too painful for everyone involved, including me.

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  10. OK weird it said my comment was published but I dont' see it! It if doesn't show up I'll be back to try again!

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  11. This is a freaking HOOT!!!!

    OH MY GOSH...
    Where to start! lol

    I have checked my ex-boyfriend's of 3 1/2 years emails! lol =) He is sooooooooooooooooooooooooo DUMB I don't even know why I looked!!!! By the way he is with a very UGLY chick! She makes me feel like a beauty queen!!!!

    I'm sooooooooooooooooooo sick of the long drive to and from work back to our lake house! I don't know how much more I can take of it! It's only been a month! The long hours turn me into such a B*%$H!!!!! I'm not very fun to be around!!!

    Who is Jill Jill Bo Bill???? She goes to Canton? We have never been! Maybe she can give me some tips! =)

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  12. I can't stand my adult step-kids. They are 30 and 28 and still ask for and expect us to pay for their shit. I have voiced my opinion about them being too old, but my husband feels like he does for my kids, so he owes it to his. I intentionally "forget" to call them for family functions. I also don't have many pictures of them up in my house.

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  13. I stole the garage door opener from my ex-husband when I was at his (our former) house once. He thinks he lost it. I now have a way to get in whenever I want to.

    I have not yet exacted my revenge for his affair, however, shrimp strategically stitched into couch cushions and drapery hems, that eventually rots and smells to high heaven seems like a good place to start.

    When he can't get rid of the smell he'll at least have to get all new furniture and window coverings. That's pricey. Oh, and bedding. They'll have to get sewn into the middle of his $350 Ralph Lauren comforter.

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  14. I can't stand my one and only SIL. I can't tell you how many times my husband has told me to "be the bigger person". And I have each and every time only to be let down by her time and time again. If she wasn't married to his one and only brother (his TWIN), I would so cut them out of our lives.

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  15. not a confession but a vent.

    Last night I had a meeting and hubby was in charge of feeding the kids(I made the meal all he had to do was dish it out). youngest son spilled his oj all over the table and floor. Hubby lost it (very stressed w/work) and called me at my meeting screaming like a loon-a-tic that I need to get home so I leave and race home to 3 crying kids and a spaz hubby. Hubby has the balls to make this comment "It's your fault, you should have been home". Give me FUCKING break (sorry to swear georgie)!!
    I want to ring his fat ass neck!

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  16. I cheated on my calculus test my first year of college because i would have failed if I didn't.

    I cheated on my ex husband before we were married with my ex boyfriend. Should have been a sign!!

    I'm still in love with VIP and would go back to him if he asked.

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  17. I haven't been able to go back to church sense loosing my daughter 2 1/2 years ago, I'm still too mad at God, and I think I will loose it if I sit through a service.

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  18. i cheated on my first husband and got pregant now i am not sure who the father is

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  19. I have crush on a woman in my neighborhood. She's hot and well dressed, and very sweet. Not sure if it is a crush or envy....but I sure check her out!

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  20. I wish I would have choosen a differnt life path,I never saw myself married with children,I wanted to travel and see the world not feel trapped

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  21. I wanted to be more than my mom now I feel like I am nothing more than her shadow

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  22. I had hopes and dreams but I got pregnant at 15 and everything changed including me,I wanted to be more so much more

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  23. I'm afraid of cancer....not if but when. I don't want to die, I don't want anyone close to me to die.

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  24. my confession is I get so disgusted with myself at times that I peel the skin off my fingers as punishment

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  25. My father is a convicted murderer. I want to blog about it but am too ashamed.

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  26. I am a married mother of 4 that has a crush on another woman,at times i just want to leave it all behind and run away with her

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  27. I am jealous of my sister-she has the perfect life,the perfect husband,the perfect children,the perfect house

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  28. I don't love my husband anymore but come from a long list of Catholics and can not do anything about it

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  29. I was molested as a child and still feel the pain every day I want more/better for my children and feel like I am over protective of them but I know I need to let them grow up-I am breaking the cycle

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  30. I wish I had as many followers as you-I never comment but I read you every day

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  31. As per Janet on your playlist - no THIS is sick! I'm loving this confessional booth! I relate to so many of the confessions lol. Jennifer - also bad with money, Jen Suarez - you're awesome with your candor, will be commenting on your site.

    So many of the Anon's are so heartbreaking and authentic and I'm so proud of them for speaking aloud.

    For me...I spend more than I make every month. I'm really frickin' stressed over confrontation and if someone says or does something mean to me I will think about it not for days, not weeks, not months - YEARS. yes. Years.

    That's it for now - all my really big confessions are on my secret blog :D

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  32. I love my mom....but I don't like her very much.

    I hate my SIL too (DH SIS). She is a Bitch. She has made my 24 years in this family hell.

    Today I feel like I just don't measure up to everyone else. I hate days like that.

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  33. I was molested as a child too. My grandfather was horrible. NO ONE knows about this. I have carried this burden all of my life.

    I HATE HIM

    I can not talk about it, because I will not allow this to hurt my family and believe me, my family members would be crushed. Assuming they believed me.

    I too was over protected of my kids. I want the other poster to know it is OK. I did not leave my kids with anyone other than my mom and MIL. EVER. And certainly NOT with a male family member no matter who they were. They are grown, and I am sure they never had to worry about carrying this burden.

    In my young married life, my FIL grabbed my breast in a drucken stupper. I told my husband, he did nothing....said what was he going to do? It was his dad? I lost all respect for him that day. We are still married, but I don't respect him or love him like I did before that happened.

    Lastly, this is my second comment here today.

    THANK YOU. I have NEVER spoken these words or written them down in my 47 years. I needed that. I feel a little bit lighter. I am going to visualize letting this go when I hit the Post Comment Button. It is a start.

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  34. Wow what a great idea. I have two big confessions, but neither are two secrets. I am completely out of control with food and money.

    But the one that bothers me the most is that I HATE my secretary and live in fear of what she can do to me, and that makes me even angrier that she should have any control over me, but I cannot seem to control my anger toward her

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  35. I hacked into my ex's email's after he left and that's how I knew who he was sleeping with. told him I was having him followed. he still thinks that to this day.

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  36. My dad was an alcholic and so am I-I struggle every day with not wanting a drink-Thank you Georgie for letting me be able to say what I cant on my own blog-I struggle every day and i mean I struggle every day!

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  37. I will never measure up NEVER!

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  38. Sometimes I feel like ending it all,like I have nothing left to give-they have sucked me dry

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  39. More a vent.... I get so tired of my best friend, all she EVER wants to talk about is herself. ALWAYS, if I mention anything it goes back to her, everything is so dramatic! Give me a break! So I set my computer so she cant see me online. i help her cause i am nice, but honestly I feel like I am her therapist more than a best friend. I am tired of it all....

    just tired of it.

    ps I stole all the tests for one class in HS and sold the answers.

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  40. I hate being fat. I hate that people look down on me for that....

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  41. I wish I was able to gain control of my eating and lose weight. I hate looking at myself in the mirror at times. I don't like what I see staring back at me.

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  42. I have one brother, my husband has one sister. The holidays are coming up and neither families really care about celebrating the holidays together as a family.(on respected sides) The only reason we do so is because of my mom and his dad. It is so fake...it makes me sick. That is the ONLY day out of the year we even get together. Fake.

    Confession: I wish I had a more loving family, one that cared about sharing their lives with each other. I feel like my kids really missed something growing up, I know I have. You can't get years back or memories.

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  43. Oh my gosh, I am so touched at some of these confessions. Ladies (and guys?) I wish you could NOT be anonymous and come out so that I could hug each and everyone one of you and say "Talk to me...I'm here".

    You are all incredible people.

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  44. I can not stand spending time with the inlaws, they drive me crazy while they sit on their religious step stools and look down their noses at everyone-not very religious of them? I know and I live.it.every.day-we are neighbors-I have to hide who I REALLY am from them and pretend to be something I am not

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  45. Wow! Commenters and Georgie alike - fantastic post and confessions, many of you are very brave, cyber hugs to those who are hurting (seems like most). My confession - I LOVE penny slots and I'm going to throw a bunch of money at Las Vegas casinos next week. Money that should probably go towards my kids' college fund! Ugh.

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  46. I wish that my husband was not so controling and would let me have some what of a life I am sick of sitting home taking care of his kids while his ex wife can have a life. I just want to go back to work. I wish he would step up to her and tell her to pay up take care of your bills and her kids. Pay us some child support so we did not have to live pay check to pay check. We cant even buy a house because she has put him so for in to debt.

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  47. I want my husband to be a professional, one who likes to travel and is social. A good dad, lover and caregiver. He isn't and as a result I find my self full of envy when I see woman who have these types of men.

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  48. Holy crap- these are priceless- you're on to something here... I will have nerve and not go anonymous...

    I am struggling deeply with my Catholic faith and am up in the air about whether to change religion ( to what, I have no idea) and how to raise my kids with a spirituality and not a judgemental attitude.

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  49. When I was a kid I made my brother steal a plastic snake or something from the corner store, and then I told on him and he got in real - bad - trouble... My parents went on and on about how bad he was and that he was a theif and so on and so forth. I have hated that day my entire life. Of course, he doesn't remember it, go figure.

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  50. Georgie ~ or should I call you Father Georgie since you're doin' the Confessional ~ you've helped SO MANY people unburden themselves today. Are you thinking about doing it weekly? 'Cause I got a whole lot more I could crank about.

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  51. P.S. I can't stand going to my in-laws. I'd rather stay home and eat brussel sprouts and liver...

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  52. This is so awesome!!I think you should do this every week... FREEING FRIDAY. Free yourself of the burdens and know you are not alone.

    My confession: I HAAAATED being a preachers wife. Not because of I hated church or God, but because of the image I was forced to uphold in other's eyes. I went to school halfway knowing my preacher husband would divorce me because he wasn't in control. I also gave up custody of my kids the last year I went to school. It was the hardest year of my life, yet sometimes I miss being alone.

    Whew! I feel so much better!!!! Thanks!

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  53. Wow! I love this idea.. and look how many posts there are! You are on to something here. I confess... that I've had more than one affair. He only knows of one. I am not happy about it, but it has made me who I am now. I am still a lonely person. You'd think he'd get it....

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  54. I used to steal items from restaurants. Like menus, things sitting on the table. I don't know why I did it--I just did. I never got caught but I still feel sort of bad to this day! That is so unlike me to do that!

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  55. oh my gosh, people are being so honest. ok, i hate my job and i'm going to quit in april.

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  56. I'm a deans list student, yet I'm basically cheating off one of my fellow students for all of my assignments and exams in one of my harder classes this semester.

    I secretly feel like I'm only in school anymore for the financial aid/loan money.

    I would take all of my kids & husband and completely disappear from both of our families if I could.

    I was molested at the age of 10, and struggle every day with not going to the local hospital now, grabbing a pillow and suffocating the sick bastard.

    I believe my occassional drinking may be becoming a full blown problem. I'm starting to look for reasons to drink.

    I'm also not the best rock star mom in the universe.

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  57. I hate my mother, I am only nice to her because she gives me money and gifts.

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  58. I have IBS.
    I miss my job.
    I am bored a lot.
    I want a tummy tuck/lipo or to lose 20 pounds but don't make myself do it even though I hit the gym 3-4 x a week....I don't push myself.
    Boring, but what is on my mind!

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  59. Wow! What a post!!
    Thanks for stopping by my site! I love your comments!

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  60. What a great idea for a post, and thanks for the visit yesterday.

    Here's mine:

    I just ate leftover birthday cake for breakfast. DH took the kids out so I can rest since I'm sick. I'm actually feeling a bit better but really wanted the morning alone.

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  61. I'm lazy. I mean, really lazy. I mean, you wouldn't believe how lazy. My friends would be shocked.

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  62. Thanks for visiting my site :) I can't imagine how hard things must be for you. Being a caregiver is so difficult and you need just as much support from friends and family as your dad does. if you would be interested in doing a guest post on my blog about being a caregiver I would love it :)

    Also, one of my bloggy friends is starting a blog dedicated to sending out personal cards to cancer fighters. They are great and if you would like one for your dad please just send me an email with his name and an address and Ill get one sent ASAP :)

    megse5@netscape.net

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  63. Thanks for visiting me! I hope you come back and check me out now and again. I LOVE this post! Very creative!

    Hmmmmmm...let's see...okay, here's mine...

    I've always wanted to work at home and now I hate it more than anything. I have to work for countless hours each day just to bring in squat. My dh will never get a better job and I hate him for it.

    I have to say, these are some GREAT comments!

    Kateedyd
    Kateedyd What?!
    Confetti by:Kateedyd

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  64. My MIL is an evil witch, I really want to blog about it but she reads, and if I don't have the balls to tell her in person, I can't cop out and tell the public first.

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  65. Oh good gawd, I may just have to come by here daily to read the confessionals...

    Thanks for stopping by :)

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  66. I have a big mouth so everyone pretty much knows about my dark side; well, really more of a grey side. The only thing I keep to myself is that I frequently have fantasies of finding a nicer, wealthier husband than the one I have.

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  67. I don't really believe in God. I pretend I do because I like churches and the idea of being nice to others. I grew up around faith-filled people, but no matter how much I would like to believe, I don't.

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  68. My husband had an affair and I'm staying with him only for my children. he thinks we "worked through it". I hate him.

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  69. My husband hasn't kissed me or had sex with me in almost 2 years.

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  70. i have ran up 30k in credit card debt that my husband doesn't know about.

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  71. I wish my chirldrens grandparents cared more about the. My husbands rents live in Mi. and see my nieces daily, . My girls go months and months without so much as a call. My mom lives in NM. and is very self centered so its pretty much the same story. I'm always covetous of Girls who's parents are active in their kids lives, you truly don't know how blessed you are... Thanks Georgie, I've really never told anyone this. LA

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  72. Well I pretty much confessed my sins awhile back on my blog but there's one more...My hubby butt dialed me one night when he was out with his "buddy's" he told them I was the worst lay he had ever had??? I've been called a lot of things but that wasn't one of them. I think they went to a whore house that night and now I make him go without for months on purpose. I feel like a big "fat" loser "L"

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  73. I confess that I still listen to Milli Vanilli and almost cried when I found out one of the fakers committed suicide. :o(

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  74. I'm stopping by from SITS and I love the idea of this post, so I think I'll join in!

    My parents only want to spend time with my boys and not my girls and I'm really tired of it and am thinking about just not letting the boys go either. The girls have a different daddy than my boys and their other grandmother NEVER wants to see them, keep them,anything and we all live in the same town. She keeps her other grandkids that live 3 hours away for weeks at a time, but she complains if we ask her to keep one or both of the girls for an hour!! Sooo irritating. My girls need grandparents too, dang it!!

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  75. My daughter hates me and I don't know why. Her father doesn't understand it either. I have always done everything I could to help her when she needed it. never offered advice unless asked. But I have now accepted that she doesn't want anything to do with me, and so I won't have anything to do with her, and maybe that will make her happy.

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  76. Wow! You seem to have a hit a nerve with this post.

    Well done you for providing the forum and well done to all those brave souls who shared.

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  77. Hey Georgie, my confession is that I act all the time like I don't want children but the truth is I think I do and but don't know if I ever will have the chance.

    GREAT post!!! I think you should do this weekly!!! :)

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  78. What a neat idea. Cleansing for the soul.

    My confession would be that even though I love baking and working with chocolate, I shouldn't...my triglycerides are through the roof:-(

    Thanks for stopping by my blog today and leaving such sweet comments. I hope to see a fellow SITsta again soon:-)

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  79. Thanks for visiting my page. If you want the cd just e-mail me and I will send it out. One of the songs is called Runaway To Mexico. I love that because I have that feeling atleast once a day. My confession: I sometimes feel relieved when my oldest goes to his Dads for the weekend because then I get 3 days of not doing diabetic stuff. I have learned to not feel guilty about that feeling and just enjoy the weekend.

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  80. Thanks for stopping by my blog this morning! I love this confessional idea! Totally awesome!

    Now for my confession:

    I'm terrible with money. If I have it I feel the need to spend it. It's an uphill battle for me every other week!

    I'm also jealous of my brothers fiancee'....She's super skinny and well I'm not and I wish I had taken better care of myself so I wouldn't be the way I am right now.

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  81. I can not believe all the comments. You truly are on to something here Goergie!
    I have another one...
    My youngest has been reading my blog and now I am completely freaked that some of the things I have said will get back to my hubby. Hubby knows I blog, but I don't show him much on there and he's not computer friendly, so he doesn't go on himself.

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  82. If I knew that death would reunite me with my dog, I would end it all immediately to be with her. She's the only soul ever to love me unconditionally, and I will never stop missing her. I just live with it, day after day.

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  83. Thanks for stopping by, I will leave a confession, but I am SUCH an open book it's hard to hide things.

    I have some good ones. I will be back to leave them as Anonymous.

    Feisty

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  84. I threw out a family heirloom quilt. I was just tired of storing it. I was then asked for it for 2 years. I just blamed my cousin.

    I also have a very strong disliking for my bestfriends boyfriend. To many reasons to list. But either she dosen't realize it after 10 years, or she is in serious denial.

    Thank you I feel better.

    The Quilted Hater

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  85. My High School boyfriend had a child while I was waiting for him my first year of College. A friend I haven't seen for ages kind of told because she thought I'd have the dirt. I had no idea, but it didn't surprise me . His oldest child is a year younger than my middle. And I guess she isn't his first. His first would be 3 years older than my oldest daughter who recently married. I was furious. After all of this time, which made me feel stupid. But I honestly waited for him and he didn't honestly wait for me. My husband let me vent about it, which makes him a saint. He had many dates, not really any "one" girl in HS. But one of them has a crush on him still. He knows it and told me. It's been a really interesting 3 months.

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  86. If I don't dig up $1000 by Friday, I will be homeless.

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  87. My oldest son hates me, and I don't blame him.

    It still breaks my heart, though.

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  88. I think my husband might be an alcoholic, and I don't know how to help him...

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  89. I have been married to my husband for 7 years. We have never had sex. We did before we got married but not one single time since we got married. My mother-in-law keeps asking why we don't have any children. Sex = babies it ain't happenin' here lady.

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  90. Georgie - that is friggin' amazing.

    My confession? I still occasionally talk to exes even though I know it drives my husband mad. Oh, and he doesn't know.

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  91. I have a hard time being around, let alone liking, my younger brother's wife. They rarely visit and don't make it easy for my parents to visit them and their children. When SIL does visit, she's always trying to give me advice. She once sent a pair of size 8 jeans (that were too big for her) home with my mom for me saying, "Maybe it will motivate her." She stole all my ideas for my first child's nursery and used them for herself. (She had her baby first) I wanted to do a mini triathlon by the time I turned 40, but once I heard she's done one already, I decided to skip it. She didn't know, but I still felt like she stole that from me too.

    My parents think that I was a virgin on my wedding night. I was technically, but my fiance and I got to know each other VERY well prior to getting married. I felt guilty sitting in church for months afterward. Still kinda do.

    I have a hard time trusting my husband with big decisions. I always think I know better. And most of the time I am right.

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  92. my family is really strict on me and the one i love. i dont think they like her much, and i just want to tell them to stay out of my business, but its hard when i love them so much! i cant stand the idea of being without her and yet they have no idea of how much she means to me and how much their words hurt!

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  93. I got the money.

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