1.02.2009

The Confessional is Open

It's that time of the month...confession time, time to open 'the booth' you can post as ANON or you may use your real name/blogger name....you do not need a blog to post a confession...and EVERYONE is welcome.

The Confessional will be open all weekend

This is where I turn the comment section into a confessional. Where you the reader get to post what's on mind,in your heart, maybe it is something you can't post on your blog or can't say in person and just want to get it off your chest.

The past 2 months some of the confessions(Click Here) were heartbreaking,some where funny,some were serious, I can only hope that making a confession is freeing in some form for you.

The one thing I have learned is you/we/us/me are not alone...

If you want to take the button and add it to your blog feel free to snag it-Jen aka The Mom made it just for this occassion.

My confession for today: I am missin Deb!

89 comments:

  1. I had an affair with a married man I met online. It was about 6 yrs ago and the sex was out of this world!...probably because it was forbidden fruit.

    I have little or no sex drive now but I like to remember that every now & then.

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  2. I cheated last year. I regret it to this day. I was in love with him before I met my husband. I still think of him now and then. Thankfully the love I felt is fading. I saw him in November at a city event. He did not see me. I was grateful.

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  3. I faked orgasms for the first 3 years of my marriage until my 'friend' had a sexy party and I bought a Rabbit. Now I understand what all the fuss is about!

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  4. My confession for the day doesn't stand up tp the ones above... but for some reason I have to write that I think I just had my heart broken again!!!! Good way to start the year....

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  5. I'm secretly seeing someone I shouldn't be.

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  6. I confess that I have NO CLUE how to make little hearts like Georgie does! Someone wanna help me out here???

    Also my ex-husband reads my blog everyday. I don't know why but it kinda cracks me up knowing he still misses me. We're both remarried!!!

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  7. Am addicted to blogging and twitter

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  8. OK....well...my life is just SO exciting. I'm going to have to think about this one for awhile.

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  9. I like a guy a hell lot but I can't bring myself up to meet his face. Sigh, teenage love but still, I really like him.

    Only thing is, I don't even think he knows me.

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  10. I am an alcoholic.

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  11. I'm ready for my husband & kids to go back to work/school!

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  12. I'll be taking a pregnancy test in a couple of days.....oops! A happy oops, but MAYBE an oops! :)

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  13. I confess that Georgie never comes to my blog anymore and I'm not on her blogroll and wonder why. At one time we were close ` around Christmas ` and then the drift started...

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  14. I confess that I don't like whiners, blog envy or popularity contests.

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  15. I CAN NOT TAKE THE PEOPLE I WORK FOR ANYMORE. I NEED OUT.

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  16. there is a man at my children school that I have a crush on. He is a single dad and a bigg flirt. He know I am married but the flirting has got to be him making advances and letting me know that he is doing more than flirting so the ball is in my court all I have to do is say the word. I love my husband but I really like the attention I am getting from this other man. I would never cheat on my husband but I feel guilty flirting with this man when I know he wants more.

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  17. Well, this seems tame in comparison to these other ones. I was just going to say that I cuss like a sailor when I work out. I call the instructor on the DVD every name in the book.

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  18. I think this may be the year that I file for a divorce. I have to choose to either lose my wonderful life and not so wonderful husband or lose myself...

    I want to save myself.....I just need courage.

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  19. I confess that I drink way too much and am probably an alcoholic

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  20. I don't know how to make the hearts georgie makes either and I like them so much....
    On a serious note...I am really damn nosey!

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  21. here is a link to make symbols like the hearts
    http://www.squidoo.com/html_numeric_codes

    basically it is this code(no spaces-I added spaces so it would show up)
    Heart symbol (♥) & # 9 8 2 9 ;

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  22. I'm tired of putting on a happy go lucky poker face. Inside I'm lonely and miserable.

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  23. To anonymous at 12:25. I feel ya.

    Everyone who reads my blog thinks my husband is grand, we are happy, have a great life...when in reality it bites. If people knew the truth, they would not believe it.

    Lonely and miserable sums up my life too. I have vowed to do something about it this year. I just don't know what. Just know you are not alone. & # 9 8 2 9

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  24. To hell with it, I can not make hearts... :(

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  25. I really don't drink that much, but I have been drunk in front of my kids. They get angry with me if I have a glass of wine. I haven't had sex in over three years. I'm so glad my divorce is final, and I struggle to not say crap things about my ex in front of my kids. Right now, I'm struggling with being a strong mom and not a pushover who gives her kids what they demand. I'm feeling pulled between two sides of my immediate family, and I don't know where my loyalty lies.

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  26. I have major trust issues due betrayal by women in my life. I didn't see it coming. It was a hard year. I am really looking forward to new beginnings in 2009!

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  27. I would quit myt job in a SECOND if we had enough money...
    I don't think this is much of a secret confession though! LOL!

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  28. I need to be nicer.

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  29. I don't have any secrets right now. Apparently, I'm boring.

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  30. I am thinking about leaving my husband but I'm just not sure. &#9829

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  31. I can't make hearts either :-(

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  32. Wow. I confess that my life must be incredibly boring but I also confess that I am grateful about that. And I love the hearts too.

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  33. Thank you for stopping by!!

    My confession? Hmm...I'm addicted to blogger! Also, I wish I could tell my MIL and SIL to quit their stupid ass lying all the time cause we aren't stupid. It's pathetic!!

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  34. Thanks for commenting my blog...
    As for confessions.
    I am not having a love affair, though I am truly sick of my baby crying all the time. I kinda wish Daddy could stay home while he is sick and I could just blog my heart away all day. Sad huh?

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  35. I can not stand my husband and if I could I would leave him

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  36. My Mother was the worst mom now she is even worse as a Grandmother-she is selfish and only thinks of herself

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  37. I despise my real 8-5 job! Well not that that is really a confessional cause if you read my blog then you know it- But I always think about what I could be doing if it weren't for this damn job and the $$$ I make holdin me back....Oh Yeah- I drank way too many pink panty pulldowns on New Years Eve! I was definetly overserved!

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  38. confessions????? Jesus. Okay, I am ready to kick my husband's ass out of the house.

    i can't take it anymore.

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  39. Our daughter, who hates me for some reason, says she loves her dad though, but didn't even send a Christmas card, let alone a gift to him. He says he is glad she didn't because it would be another slap in the face to me, since she said on her blog what a lousy mother and grandmother I am. I have always tried to do all I could to help her without interfering in her marriage and how she raises her kids. But I guess that was wrong. I've accepted her hate now and I know that my husband loves me as much as I love him, no matter what. He is on my side.

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  40. ahhh the confessional! I love how many people posted ANON! My confessional is well...ummm not sure.. I will get back to you on that!

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  41. My neighbors have ZERO idea how close they are to getting a baseball bat to the skull. The chest. The crotch. I'm not even kidding, and I'm typically not a violent person. I AM TIRED OF THE BULL CRAP & HARASSMENT AND I AM ABOUT TO SNAP!!!!

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  42. well, this is scary as some of these comments could have been written by me and some about me....I was going to write something, but it seems my confession has already been posted.

    I do confess that one confession here creeps the heck out of me.....

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  43. I love confessional. My confession is that I don't want to be mom or wife alllll of the time. I want to go somewhere warm and by myself, just for a short vacay.

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  44. Thanks for stopping by my blog. Dawn is a a sweetie to pass on my link. It is nice to meet you and I look forward to reading your blog!

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  45. I caught a STD from my husband a few years ago. I know he cheated on me, but I cannot prove it. Sometimes I wish someone would pop up out of the blue with his love child so the kids and I would have a "real" reason to leave.

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  46. A confessional?? How cool!

    My husband had an affair 5 years ago and we've gotten through it. Except, something about the new year made me think of her and I looked her up on MySpace, found her. Her main picture was her wedding picture. A wedding for her and the man who was her fiance at the time she had the affair with my husband. She looked sooooo happy in the picture. While I say I'm over it, I really wanted to jump through the computer to slap her b/c I thought to myself...why does she get to deserve to be happy with someone who hasn't cheated on her after her and my husband caused me so much pain? During their affair she came to my house and looked through my wedding album!...I thought, I guess we're even cause I got to see her wedding pics as well. I love my husband, but UGH...men suck!

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  47. Thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment!

    Steph

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  48. I confess a few things - first, I'm so glad that Georgie changed the background on the blog -- I had such a hard time reading it in December...

    I married the man I did because I got pregnant and even though I lost the child I felt like I had to stay with him. So I'm only staying with him because of the child we never had. That just sounds crazy, now that I have finally said it. Our child would have been 12 this year.

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  49. This doesn't seem to fit with any of the other comments but I would never say this publicly or to anyone I know: I have the BEST hottest sex life with my husband. Monogamy is soooo great. We've been married for going on 9 years. He knows me better than I know myself. We even have our own private sex blog where we have our videos and pictures--for no one else to see. EVER. Anyway. It's so much fun. I wish everyone out there could have such a wonderful, giving, hot partner. Not all men are bad, some just make poor choices. I have living proof that some (at least one) is AMAZING. Including in bed. Wow.

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  50. Six months ago my husband started hitting me. He started off just pushing and shoving, and then the behavior became more aggressive. I took about three weeks of this behavior- I told myself that he wasn't this kind of man. I just couldn't believe that it was happening!

    One Friday night we got in (another) fight and he choked me until I passed out. I locked him out of the house for a week.

    I told him I wouldn't allow him back into my life unless he went to counseling. My husband went to INTENSIVE personal counseling with our pastor, and we also went to regular marriage counseling.

    For the longest time I felt like the biggest dumbass in the world for staying. My ex husband beat the shit out of me (he was also extremely emotionally abusive) and I couldn't get out of there fast enough! But I chose to stay with my current husband.

    The reality is that my husband worked his ass off in counseling. He turned 180 degrees around, to the point where our pastor told me (privately) that he rarely counseled a man (in a domestic violence situation) where that man was completely dedicated to renewing his marriage and changing his behavior; our pastor told me my husband was that man. My husband has also worked like crazy to earn my trust back.

    Six months later our marriage is better than I ever thought it would be. It's so strange to think about it. I still feel stupid sometimes, the odds are so against a batterer to change his behavior. But I've seen the changes, our pastor has seen the changes, my husband's psychologist has seen the changes... How can you argue when the proof is right in front of your eyes?

    If he does it again I'll shoot him. Not kill him, just knock him down long enough to grab my daughter and run.

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  51. I got raped when I was in Iraq. He was a coworker and a friend. I never told anyone, until I confessed to my husband three years later. I will always regret blaming myself for so long, and I will always regret not reporting him to my Commanding Officer. The sad part is that I don't think anyone would have believed me anyway...

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  52. I'll have to come back and post my confession but for now, I just want to thank you for stopping by my place. I look forward to reading a fellow Okie's blog.

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  53. Whoa, I've never seen comments like these. I just wanted to say thanks for stopping by my blog! Glad to find another Evanovich fan.

    A confession... I feel very guilty about my good life. Nice monogomous hubby, living kids, sweet little house... I'm sorry I have nothing really bad to share. I feel for everyone else here.

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  54. I'm addicted to the net, especially blogger and facebook.

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  55. came from SITS...what an idea! my confession: i will blog instead of clean every single day...but i can't. booo.

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  56. My confession is that my best friend is not really my best friend in my eyes even though she has no clue and I don't have the guts to tell her.

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  57. My boss has a terrible temper and threw scissors into the wall yesterday. If he ever throws anything at me I WILL punch him in the face. I might go to jail too. I HATE my boss!

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  58. Happy New Year Georgie!
    My confessions: I miss Wal-Mart. I think I just threw up a little in my mouth when I said that...

    A second confession...if that's allowed. My MIL treats my SIL like a saint. I hate that I never had that relationship with my MIL but I stopped caring years ago. Every once in a while it bothers me. Like, today my mom told me she saw them at Kohl's together. Oh well...I live in Italy;)

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  59. cool idea! I confess I have a new 'bad' habit (blogging) and its fun fun fun!!!! My goal this year is to REALLY enjoy my life, my simple, boring wonderful life!! Blessings to all.

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  60. Yikes! Confessions: I confess this is the first time popping over here even though Georgie has visited my blog roll more than once-
    (GASp)

    I just wanted to pop over and thank her for the TLC and well wishes she leaves at my blog.

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  61. I have longed for day to come.
    I have sat and watched every time.
    I have cheered.
    I have cried.
    I have been let down before.
    But the day is coming....and I can't watch.
    I will have chest pains.
    I will cry once again.
    But I just can't watch OU play Florida.

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  62. My confession is that I have a horrible issue witht he men in my life. I make jokes on my blog, but in all honesty I have got to get some control over this. I'm better than this and I'm not going to spend one more minute of one more day worrying what I might have done wrong, with any of them.

    Happy New Year Georgie!

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  63. I know my blogging time takes away from my time with the kids but I'm not doing anything about it. Because I've put everyone else first for 12 years.

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  64. ....this is my first visit to your blog!

    My confession...I have a hard time making friends. Shortly after starting my blog, I discovered the idea of having "blog friends", which I have used to fill the void of not having friends in "real life" to talk to.

    Recently however, the more blogs I come across, the more it has begun to feel like a popularity contest..that I am losing. Its like being in Junior High all over again, and it breaks my heart.

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  65. I have never received a Blog Award and it makes me feel lame, like no one appreciates my blog.

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  66. I would much rather spend my days with my bloggy friends than out in the world with real ones.

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  67. I feel guilty that blogging is taking up a lot of my time that I should be working, cleaning or spending time with my family. I am addicted!

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  68. I have a horrible mother. She was a horrible role model and I always envied my friends mother. Now a mother to my own, I fear I am making the same mistakes she did.....

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  69. I cant stand drinking alcohol cause it puts me out of commission for 2 days!!!!

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  70. Just stopped by to say Happy New Year Girl!

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  71. WOW! These confessions are rich. Good idea.
    My confession: It took me until tonight to post on my blog showing my Secret Santa gifts! Although I was proud of them and very thankful for some reason I kept putting it off until tomorrow. Sorry Georgie! But post is up now if you would like to take a look... :)

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  72. It drives me crazy that my friend won't get her child tested for ADHD/ADD because she does not want him to be labeled. He for sure is and I know it will help him but she is totally against it. The school even reccomended he get tested and she never followed through.

    Same friend has had issues with anxiety and had attacks and the Dr. told her she needed to go on meds for it but she never got it filled because she did not want that label. It really makes me mad because she needs the help.

    BTW I can't stand to be around said friend because her kids are crazy and don't ever stop going. It is way too stressful and not enjoyable. She will snap one day I am afraid.

    My confession: I use my mini massager way too much. I enjoy orgasms and I sleep better.

    Another Confession: My fantasy always involves another girl. Watching 2 girls really turns me on.

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  73. stumbled upon your blog found in quite interesting; please stop by when you have some time! all comments are always welcome!
    http://fullmoonindustries.blogspot.com/
    stay true to what you do~
    FMI

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  74. Wow, Georgie. Your confessional really runs the gambit. What an inspired idea. Thank you for hosting such a wonderful outlet for people.

    I sadly don't have much I need to get off my chest this morning. Most of my confessions happen in the public forum on my blog! :) I did, however, want to leave a link for you. After reading how much you like hearts, I came across a site for fonts that I think you might enjoy...http://www.dafont.com/theme.php?cat=801. How you seen it?

    After finding in on the internet yesterday, I thought, Georgie must see this!

    -Francesca

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  75. Although I would miss her, I wish my mother's pain would end. There is no joy left for her and she's losing mobility and quality of life. When that's the case for an animal, we help them to go. I wish I could give my mother that final peace she wants and talks about so much.

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  76. I want to have a sexually charged romp with a military man. I want him to wear his fatigues and I want to taste gun metal on his skin.

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  77. A little over four years ago, my oldest child was born silently. And today, without warning..I miss her more than ever.

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  78. I love this idea. It can be so cleansing. I think I might look into doing something like this on the BSU site. (If you don't mind, of course)

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  79. i think i might be bipolar. and i think i have ptsd after being sexually abused.

    my husband called the cops on me today because i locked myself in our bedroom with a loaded gun. he thought i was going to committ suicide (i wasn't). i think i need to be admitted to a psych hospital but we can't afford it. the cops were going to take me anyway but my hubby told them he would take me. we drove there but i didn't go in because of the $$$$.

    i'm terrified. all the time.

    i want it to stop.

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  80. This confessional might be the most remarkable thing I've seen on a blog.

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  81. i think sleeping might be the most wondrous thing in the world. i just need to figure out how do fall asleep without it being so hard!

    i've really enjoyed reading your blog. i think i might stop by more often!

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  82. i have been having an affair for over two years, i am ashamed of myself and i want to stop, but i can't, he makes me feel so good about myself!!

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  83. ps. to the above confession...my husband cheated on me first, not that that makes t better, and he PUSHED me into doing this because he felt guilty about himself...now i can't quit!!

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  84. I didn't make that meatloaf in the picture.

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  85. I think that I have figured out how to symbols. Maybe.
    Yogi♫

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  86. I mean how to do symbols.

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  87. I want to run away. I sometimes hate my life and my partner. I think my partner wishes I never came into the picture. I hate that I feel like I'm loosing my mind. I have TONS of trust issues with my partner. My partner cheated on me when we were first together. Although I love my partner I want so bad to do the same thing! But I can't bring myself to cheat on my partner at all! I'm just not that type of person! Now I don't trust my partner and my partner gets mad when I question what my partner does! Can you balme me????

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